Temper Tantrum Management
Occurs:
- Age 18 months to 3 years
Why it Happens:
- The child develops autonomy and negativism
- They do the opposite of what is requested (oppositionalism)
- Frustration arises when they can’t express autonomy
- Behaviors like biting, crying, kicking, and head-banging may occur
Key Points:
- This behavior tends to subside between 3 and 6 years
- Parental frustration may worsen the problem
Signs of Frustration:
- Physical aggression
- Throwing objects
- Crying, hitting, head banging
RIDD Strategy for Management
- R: Remain calm and redirect or distract the child.
- I: Ignore the tantrum.
- D: Distract the child by changing the environment or activity.
- D: Say “yes” to the child’s physical needs, but don’t give in to demands.
Treatment Approach:
- During the Tantrum:
- Turn away briefly to give space.
- Ensure safety while staying calm.
- After the Tantrum:
- Explain that the behavior is unacceptable.
- Give immediate consequences and ensure consistency.
- Praise positive behavior often.
- Use time-out (1 minute per year of age).
- Stay calm, loving, and firm to avoid reinforcing bad behavior.
For happier, calmer children, manage tantrums with patience and love.